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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I work in tech support with almost 100% of young men and women, and the job pays around 80K/year.  The workplace is around 50/50 young men and women.  Almost 100% of these women at this workplace don't want to have anything to do with the men here, and they think these guys are "losers" for working in tech support instead of 400K/yr in software engineering jobs.  All of these "average" women think they can get a 9 or 10 guys.  One of the average women slept with a high-income software sales guy and former D1 athlete, and now she thinks those guys are willing to take her seriously, LOL...[/quote]
Some women have ridiculously high standards, to be sure, but so do some men.  That's why there are so many incels.  I bet if the incel was willing to date a woman who was overweight and not pretty he'd have no problems finding a woman.  Instead, they want size 2 women who look like umc yoga instructors.

Cuts both ways.[/quote]

The sucky thing about living and dating in 2025 vs 1975 is there are way more fat people now, so a very average thin woman in 1975 is considered above average in 2025 just from not being fat. Women have become less attractive so now there’s increased competition for the good ones. [/quote]

Have you tried not being fatphobic?

The "sucky thing" about being alive in 2025 is ridiculous beauty standards achieved by AI and filters that nobody can match up to, and average women being considered "too fat" by men who aren't even fit themselves. This idea that only non-fat women could be "good ones" is a construct you're free to opt out of, if your brain is capable of some simple critical thinking. [/quote]

Regrettably I have dated fat women and there are very good reasons why men avoid them. It’s not even all about sexual attraction. For one, it’s annoying AF when she gets out of breath or has foot pain from walking a few city blocks while I can easily run 10k’s and marathons (true experience). Or she is pre diabetic at 27 years old and will have a ton of health problems going forward.

It’s not fatphobic to not want to be with someone who can’t even physically keep up with you or gave themselves serious health issues at a young age from their life choices. [/quote]

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