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Reply to "Does getting married mean you just slowly lose yourself until there's nothing left? "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not how marriage is, but it sounds more like how life is with a 3 month old (which is why I am so scared of having a second kid). I would hire help for the kids and join a gym, and start making some time for your own hobbies and friends. [/quote] This. It’s a rough season of life right now. For me, it did get better and I hope it does for you, too. See a doc about possible PPD. Hire some help for the housework and some childcare. You are probably exhausted right now, so just doing those two things feels like climbing a mountain. Can you call a service and have someone over to babysit and clean while you sleep? Then, it might feel easier to make an appointment and see the doc. Once you either rule out or treat the potential PPD, you can keep the household help and use that time to join a book club, Bible study, or some other group. Having that social support really helps. [/quote]
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