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There were definite signs. It’s embarrassing for me in retrospect, but he was super into baking, gardening, board games, and softer hobbies like that. I also had to start begging and negotiating for sex, which is weird because I was hot and kinky at the time.

Even though we’d been together 3-4 years, he adamantly didn’t want to move in together. I started getting pushy about either moving forward or splitting, and he told me he was attracted to men.[/quote]

The misandry here is really gross. "softer hobbies" like making food and playing games? What would you have preferred? "hard hobbies" like robbing banks and stealing cars?  :roll: Men are allowed to enjoy making food. They eat, and they should know how to cook. Implying they're gay because they can bake is 1) homophobic; and 2) stupid. Do you not like cookies? bread? pastry? If it doesn't require your genitals to operate, it's not a sex-linked toy/hobby/activity. Let men do "soft" things. Damn...

Also, and I know this is going to be a shock to you, but women aren't entitled to sex any more than men are, regardless of how "hot and kinky" they consider themselves to be. Begging someone for something they're not willing to give is YOUR fault. Respect the lines people draw, and move accordingly. You shouldn't be with someone for 3-4 years, waiting for them to change and meet your needs and expectations. If he doesn't want sex and you do, break up and go give it to someone who wants it.

Being a woman isn't an asshat pass.[/quote]

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