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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If this relationship and these visits are important to him, that’s great; you can help him make the visits happen. But don’t expect them to change or adapt. They won’t. If that’s a problem, HE can stop the visits. But it’s really not your relationship to manage. You don’t have to accompany him, but this is also not your relationship to manage. [/quote] Agreed. I don't think my MIL knew what to do with kids. She would watch them play sports, though. Visits to her after FIL passed away sound similar to your experience, OP. We still went. Grandkids are all adults now and I don't think any of them have great memories with Grandma. It's kind of sad. [/quote]
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