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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DD is at beach week with a group of friends who she knows through sports and classes. She isn't super close with any of them, but they took her in after her prior friend group distanced themselves from her.
She texted me today saying that she has been spending a bit of time by herself. The first day, a couple of the girls were bickering, so dd went to the beach. None of the other girls wanted to go. She goes back and she could tell there was a lot of crying.
Girls made up and things back to normal for the rest of the day although they wanted to hang out at the house watching tv and being on their phones.
The next day - dd woke up late and most of the girls were on their phones on the couch. She asked if anyone was going to the beach and they allw were interested. DD got ready but no one else did so she ended up going herself. Other girls showed up 2 hours later.
Today - same thing. Everyone wanted to just hang out on the couch so my daughter went to the beach by herself again. Some of the group showed up several hours later as my dd was headed home. She asked if they wanted to go to the boardwalk later and no interest.
Before heading to the beach, they talked about what they wanted to do but this isn't panning out. 
So my dd is starting to wonder if it is her. she doesn't want to hang out at the house all day but is it wrong that she just goes off on her own?
In her words, everyone just seems annoyed. 
I told her to do what she wants to do at this point and that none of this bickering has anything to do with her. They are there for another 3 days and she is wondering if she should just leave early. What advice would you giver her?
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Who cares. Let her deal with it. This isn’t something you need to fix.

Maybe they’re hung over?[/quote]

What is your problem? Clearly this mother cares about her kid. OP: I'd give her the option of coming home early. No need to waste her time with these girls who aren't very friendly.[/quote]

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