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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Look, I think a lot of women tend to exaggerate the lack of safety of their kids with their DH and have a catastrophic view that joint custody would be horrific. You have not described anything that makes him sound abusive, just periodically unpleasant. Which your kids have to deal with whether or not you live together. I’m not some kind of MRA but have been through it myself. You have described multiple very good reasons to divorce but you need to get your head out of the sand and accept the kids will stay with him sometimes and it may not be ideal but it will be OK. Depending on what kind of person he is, it is possible that he would voluntarily agree to a less than 50% custody schedule - like 2-3 nights a week that you ramp up to. [/quote] No. I was the OPs kid in this exact scenario. When they divorced, my mother got 100% custody and father visitation and life was so much better for us kids. [/quote]
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