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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are you both? You both sound too immature for a serious relationship.  [/quote]

She sounds like the mature one. Not OP. [/quote]

Hardly.  Once she recognized the relationship no longer served her and got confirmation through their most recent fight, she left.  That's adulting.  [/quote]

I know. I’m agreeing with you lol. [/quote]
Op may have read immature instead of mature in your post. But I agree with both of you! Gf tried to communicate her needs, op picked a fight by being condescending and petty, gf realized there is no real future here and peaced out. Queen! [/quote]

Did she really peace out though? OP kind of forced her hand to breakup with him because he was trying to breakup with her.[/quote]
 She didn’t respond to his nasty petty comments, she didn’t argue or yell. Even as she was leaving OP was still trying to aggravate her into a fight. She was as the only adult in this interaction. [/quote]

I think telling him she’d go back to her ex and that they want her back definitely qualifies as responding to his nasty comments lol [/quote]
Nope. If you reread, he called her needy, she said she didn’t have this issue in the past and he got nasty and said they were too p***y to say anything and doubled down on the age/single negging. She defended herself saying she broke up with them, he went nastier with his sarcasm and then told her to go back to them because they must be dying to get back with her. She just agreed with him. Did she respond to his comments? Sure. But she wasn’t nasty or petty or sinking to your level at all.

It sounds like she handled this calmly and classily. Op/you could learn a thing or two from how adults handle conflicts.[/quote]

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