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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Grow up and get a divorce.[/quote]

+1. Your husband is giving you notice that he is pursuing a serious relationship with another woman. Though it has been convenient so far to stay married and live separate lives, you need to accept the fact that he is ready for a divorce. Don't poison your daughter against this woman. You fell for his crap too and married a much older man. The more you malign her, the worse you look.[/quote]

OP here. It wouldn't occur to me to malign the young woman. She is probably fascinated by him and eager to get ahead in her field. I think it's fine if she wants to use him as a professional stepping stone. 
I am aghast that at almost 60 he aspires to a serious relationship with a woman barely out of her teens.

As for the meeting, he is planning to bring the grad student to my home where I live with my daughter, under the guise that the young woman is the math tutor. That should be interesting. [/quote]

Aghast? Really? You're an educated professional who married a man 13 years your senior, and you're "aghast" that old pervs skeeve on young college students? That doesn't sound very smart.

As for the whole "he's bringing her to your place" bit, have some standards. Why doesn't he take DD for a long weekend or some such? You can't stop the relationship from happening, but you can stop it from happening under your roof.

You sound really immature, OP. Get your ish together and be proactive about what you can control in your life.[/quote]

OP here. I'd much rather DD spend two hours at my home with the "tutor" than a long weekend at STBXH's home where she would realize her dad's true intentions. She doesn't know that her dad is trying to land her tutor.[/quote]

So he doesn't acknowledge this woman as his girlfriend? [/quote]

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