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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP do you want to help your son navigate a new situation for him - how to manage his ILs - in a way that will be constructive and help increase his chances of having a happy and long marriage or do you want to create drama?  This isn’t about you so it isn’t worth getting “livid” or injecting your emotion into the situation.  If you want to give your son advice just tell him that this is a valuable lesson, he should be more prudent about what he shares w his ILs in the future and when but he should also give them some grace.  Perhaps they were just over excited and weren’t thoughtful about sharing their joy.  See?  It’s not so hard.  [/quote]
I assumed that OP would already know and do exactly what you said, because she didn't ask for advice, i[b]t was just a vent[/b].[/quote]

and that's the issue because it's not something OP  needs to vent about. this is not something that should be impacting her emotionally at all or frankly that she should even know about.  This thread reeks of emmeshment and #boymom[/quote]

WTF are you smoking? And why are you so angry and jealous of women that have sons? You need to figure that out.

A wedding is a joining of two families. It isn't a celebration of one families' daughter. OP's son isn't a supporting character. And the bride's mom sure as sh*t isn't the main character. But, I have see it so many times. I've been to weddings where the mother of the bride wears.... a white dress. It's so cringe.[/quote]

Not going to lie, but the groom basically is a supporting character in a wedding. They are equals in a marriage though. [/quote]

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