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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you trying to make something happen with someone who lives far away and is terrible at communicating?  [/quote]
We really like each other when we communicate/talk over the phone. We understand each other so well, he shared a lot with me and asked a lot of questions about my life and remembers and repeats everything I shared. It's such a special connection for me, I want to keep him in my life but of course don't want to force him to communicate if he doesn't want to.

Before I got used to his communication style, I thought that he doesn't want to stay in touch and even deleted his phone number. When we reconnected, I told him what I did and why and he was clearly upset and texted me right away, so that I could save his contact again. [/quote]

All you can do OP is set boundaries and decide whether this is worth it to you.

The guys sounds like he has mental health issues and is very introverted. Not replying, dropping out of commitments without communication, being in and out on his terms.

I would honestly not invest too much in this or try to get your emotional fulfillment from it. I would seek therapy or other introspection to understand why you might be drawn to someone emotionally unavailable. I don’t question that you have a special connection that means something to both of you, but that’s a very different thing than an actual friendship or relationship. Those take effort and commitment to sustain. It doesn’t sound like he has the capacity to make that happen.[/quote]

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