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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do ask favors, and accept them when its not to big of a lift. if they are asking you to watch their child overnight because they have to go to the emergency room, I would try to say yes even though it would be a hassle because there probably arent any other alternatives. If they want me to sit at their house to wait for the plumber for 8 hours because I do not work full time, thats probably a no- I could do it but its really just poor planning on their part and I just dont really want to. I dont mind being asked, but there can be no expectation that I must say yes[/quote] They is how the person handles "no" and OP said she is angry. That is a sign of a personality issue unless the person had done similar type favors for OP and OP doesn't have good excuse. I do the kind of favors I don't mind.If a friend needed me to watch her kid while she goes to a doctors appointment back in the day and the kid played well with mine-that was an easy yes. If the child is difficult, but this is an incredible friend who has been there for me, it's a yes. I could go on. It's about how easy the favor it and the level of friendship.[/quote]
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