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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Every child is different.  But, they have to grow up into complete and confident adults who have to manage their personal life, professional life and health at all times.  Regardless of what kind of introvert/extrovert personality they have.

I think your eldest child may be depressed or lonely.  He needs therapy to figure out what he wants out of life.  I would suggest that he starts giving back to the world and find a passion project or cause.  [/quote]

Your oldest is lacking meaning and a sense of creativity. It's never too late. He's blaming you but needs to take some responsibility. If he's got plenty of money, he can start some classes or hobbies now.

My parents pushed me too hard - it was a dance mom's situation, where my talent = their ego. It brought me no joy and took away from the activities that did bring me joy.

As a parent, if it's all a struggle, I don't push. I think of the larger goal (general health and fitness? Social skills? Family bonding?) and aim for that instead. My son who didn't like team sports in elementary but was very coordinated and active because we were always at a park, hiking, swimming or playing, decided around 7th grade he was into team sports suddenly. Another kid was on the spectrum and basic school performing and social skills took precedent until 7th grade, and is playing piano. Another kid was begging for a specific sport, along with other group activities (she's a joiner) since preschool. [/quote]

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