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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Argh .
He’s probably gonna’ be a hands off father.

Counseling and if not I def wouldn’t have more kids with him. [/quote]

What?!?!? Ridiculous. 
My DH was like this… with each of my 6 pregnancies. 🤣 definitely turned off by my pregnant belly (always happy to resume normal frequency after delivery), and NOT into the pregnancy stuff. Never went to an ultrasound, made fun of me for being huge, etc. had to have several talks with him about being doing more around the house when I was subsequently pregnant.

But, he did when I asked. And he is an AMAZING father! :)
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No he is not your children watching your husband treat you like shit while you are preggers is not a good father 
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He didn’t treat me like “shit” simply because he wasn’t into the pregnancy. Frankly, I’m not sure why husbands always go to the prenatal appointments. What does it accomplish?

He made jokes about me being huge… because I WAS.  And I thought it was funny. I was huge and uncomfortable. My confidence is not in the toilet, I just don’t take myself too seriously.

I had to explicitly tell him to do more around the house. Sure. But that is also not treating me like “shit.” That’s just obliviousness. I’d communicate and he’d respond. And he supported the family financially!

No wonder you all are miserable. You want all the sympathy and understanding in the world, but don’t want to give any to your spouse. [/quote]

Nope. Still not a flex
But he’s your husband. Depend that behavior like it’s the norm. [/quote]

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