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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it’s nice he has opinion. Don’t get me started on the “woman plans wedding &gt; woman registers for wedding &gt; woman registers for baby &gt; woman knows more about babies &gt; women does more baby care &gt; father of two elementary schoolers doesn’t know what sizes his kids wears and is generally useless” pipeline.

Our approach, which has served us well across a variety of differences of opinion over 9 years and three kids, is that enthusiasm wins. Whoever cares more should get to make the call. So take a step back and think about how much you care about it, vs how much he cares about it, as objectively as you can.

Also you say you’ve agreed upon lots of other things for the wedding (location, food, music, colors). If a lot of those things are one of you saying “here’s what I think we should do” and the other saying “yeah, that sounds good” then Mr (or Ms) agreeable should get his (or her) pick. If you’re go with the flow on most things, you should get your choice on the one thing you actually have a strong opinion about.

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I don’t think him having an opinion is 
“ gay” as one op suggested. I like that he is involved and excited. I wouldn’t want to be getting married to a man who just wanted to show up and couldn’t care less about our wedding or any events.

We mutually agreed upon the venue, catering, theme, etc. Neither of us just agreed or steam rolled one another into a choice. I think we will go with September because I feel strongly about it. I do not want to feel hot and sweaty on my wedding. I also think a dark green or emerald colored bridesmaid dresses go better with fall. [/quote]

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