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Reply to "People who loved their partners/spouses but cheated anyway"
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[quote=Anonymous]People may be attached or dependent or otherwise enmeshed with their spouse, but carrying on an affair with the requisite lying and gaslighting is not love. We may inadvertently hurt those we love or even deliberately in the heat of an argument do so. But to continually and proactively engage in deceit is cruel and speaks of a profound lack of empathy. I think people who have affairs are emotionally stunted either due to immaturity (most cases) or narcissism or sociopathy. They fear or avoid difficult conversations and refuse to take accountability for their actions. People like that have no business being married or in a serious committed relationship.[/quote]
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