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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Someone in the thread mentioned that for a single women with no kids, there’s many better options than marrying a man with young kids and an ex wife. That thread suggests there may be a lot of drama and even when no drama you’ll always be second to your boyfriends children.

Yet many women will want to do this and in fact do it. Why? What are they thinking is the appeal in this situation? [/quote]

I don't think they are “thinking”. They are often naive and assume life will be easier if they date/marry an established family man, and they don't understand the trade-offs.  Go onto any number of reddit threads discussing second spouse / stepparent issues and you'll learn that 95% of them are miserable. [/quote]

Oh my gosh. I took a look and you are right. I mean I assume the threads will skew venting because it’s the internet but I can’t imagine having “the worst experience I’ve ever had” be my daily life (or at least 50 percent of my daily life).

And to top it off I can’t imagine having to live through that AND be married to my ex. [/quote]

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