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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a woman in mid 40s. Slim, pretty face, get plenty of dates with professional men and almost everyone wants to see me again. However, I’m having trouble even to decide whom I like or attracted enough at least to sleep with. Men tell me at dates they were dating 20-30 yo women before, but they look ugly and totally un..able to me. Big bellies, sweaty etc. When I look at profiles of men on dating apps 90% look repulsive and ugly to me. I do go out and sleep now with a man who is 58 and is very fit (“ripped” biker).

At the same time I found myself often checking out good looking, proportional women at my gym’s changing room. Much higher number of women appear attractive to me.  I look at them and want to touch their hair or privates, kiss them. I didn’t have these desires before.

What’s going on? Am I bisexual? Gay? I was married for 19 years, never slept with a woman. Closer to the end of my marriage I didn’t want to sleep with exH. His smell was repelling, even the leather seats in his car after his jogging workouts.

I wonder if other women in their 40s also find most middle age men sexually repulsive. What’s going on with me ? Can middle age hormonal changes make a woman gay or bisexual ? [/quote]

Oh my.... I think you might be bi or gay.

I'm a woman in my mid 40s and I'm still very attracted to men... My husband and also other men I encounter. Like, I have elaborate fantasies about them and feel physically flustered in the presence of men I'm attracted to. Have never fantasized about a woman.[/quote]

Same. I notice an attractive woman but it's men I want to kiss and couple with. [/quote]

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