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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You haven't said anything that lets us offer helpful feedback. What responsibility are you shouldering? How big a paycheck? What access do you have to the money he makes? ARE you expecting too much? Can't say without knowing what you expect. [/quote] He is an active father but sucks at anything house related. I do all the shopping, cooking, managing outsourcing crews, 95% of the childcare, scheduling/taking kids to appointments, handling childcare. I work part time making 60k. He works full time and makes 400-500k a year. I have full access to our money. I just want him to step up more with the household labor. He has said he is busy working to support our family to give me the ability to stay home. [/quote] Now try doing all that, but with a mentally disturbed, underemployed husband whom you don't really want to divorce because he yells at the kids, but since he looks great on paper, he'd still get partial custody, and it would traumatize the kids if you weren't there to defend them. BTDT. And please don't whine about the division of labor. You can afford to outsource. [/quote] I won’t because that’s not my life. It’s not my fault you chose poorly. [/quote]
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