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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My parents (70s) and siblings ( all in our 40s) ask moved down here within a mile of each other. I see my parents at minimum 3 days a week ( they watch my toddler) and often daily as they help out with random errands. They see my siblings and their kids regularly too. We go on annual vacation together and all holidays,  birthdays,  etc.

This thread is making me incredibly grateful [/quote]

You should feel grateful! And also make sure you take care of your parents and the toddler care is not too much for them. I've seen really burnt out grandparents afraid to make waves but really exhausted by all the free labor.[/quote]

My sister worked and my parents provided housing, childcare and subsidized her other expenses. They were gracious about it but it took a heavy toll on their own lives, health and finances.[/quote]

Yes, there is a difference between daily childcare and(or X days per week) versus "hey G&G we want to take a vacation just the two of us, can you come and stay and watch the grandkids for 7-10 days.  All expenses paid, you can go out to eat or get takeout anytime you want it's on us".

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