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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really don't think it's environmental: screens or divorce, or whatever else people always like to point to.

My kids are terminally online and are very calm people. I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times (combined) they've had tantrums in their lives - and they're 19 and 14.

Personality and volatility are mostly determined by genetic predisposition, so look to the parents. Were any of you volatile? Could you have been but were disciplined so much you were controlled by fear instead?

Impulsivity and anger like this is are red flags for hyperactive ADHD and anxiety. A neurotypical 9 year old does not have full blown tantrums like this, OP. You should have your daughter evaluated by a psychologist, because if she has ADHD, anxiety, or something else that's diagnosable, it's not going to go away by itself. It will need a specific parental approach, and quite likely therapy and medication.

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Me again. I would also like to point out that adults are most likely to divorce if there are mental health issues in the relationship, theirs or their spouse's. So if OP's husband is impulsive and prone to anger, and they got divorced, etc, then OP's child exhibits the same psychological profile... it's not because they divorced that's she like this. It's because she inherited these personality traits from her father.

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OP, feel free to ignore people like this who had two kids and that that they are the example of all children everywhere and any child that isn't like this has something wrong with them.

And PP, having a kid who is "terminally online" isn't exactly parenting goals for most of us. At least OP is willing to look for help. [/quote]

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