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[quote=Anonymous]Yes- I understand. Not sure I would describe as regret but definitely a very sad decision that I still feel unsettled about. I almost died in childbirth with my second and my husband was very traumatized by facing the possibility of being a single dad of a newborn and 2.5 year old. He felt 100% certain that he did not want anymore children after that. I would have liked to explore options further. 8 years later, we are both in our 40s and things feel pretty finalized. We considered adoption and looked into that process but life events (death of a parent, loss of a job, child needing an IEP, etc) we just kept feeling like the timing wasn’t right. I’m pretty sad that we won’t have a 3rd. I don’t necessarily blame my husband but I was not totally on board with his choice. [/quote]
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