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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got a job as a teacher, so I moved home from May to August. I’m thankful to my parents for letting me save money for a few months. I had to put a security deposit down, and pay expenses for the first month before I got my paycheck. Living at home that summer allowed me to do that without going into credit cards debt. I’m thankful.

If you don’t want your children moving home, you need to explicitly state that, at a time when you can be friendly and neutral.

“Larla, we would prefer that you move into your own place after graduation. You’ll need money for a security deposit and expenses until you get your first paycheck. Makes sure you have that in savings.”

Don’t be passive aggressive about it. Make sure your tone caring. You’re not required to pay for anything after graduation. That’s fine. [b]But you need to clearly inform your kid of the deadline, whatever it is. [/b][/quote]

Does that count though? I also got a teaching job before graduating college and it would have been really weird for my parents to boot me out before my job (in a totally different location) started.[/quote]
NP here.  I don't think it counts.  [/quote]

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