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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This sounds so hard, OP. You’re clearly a good person and a good mom. [/quote] This. And you deserve some peace and happiness. Yes, divorce. Hire a new nanny that is just special needs oriented and put the older child in public and after care and tons of sports with car pools. Send him to YMCA camp. Make sure he is super busy as cheaply as you can. If the cost of housing is an issue be prepared to nest. Your child is young and you are going to be beyond burned out soon. [b]Force your husband to step up by divorcing him.[/b] I am so sorry you are going through this. It sounds miserable and unbearable and you need change. Have you tried a serious behavioral medicine? [/quote] You don't divorce someone to step up by divorcing them. The husband could end up walking away entirely. I think this is for OP to work out with her therapist and it's not our place to say do or don't get a divorce. I will say do keep working on meds options with your son. Once everyone sleeps better it's easier to see things clearly.[/quote]
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