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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They know what typically works for most and what helps the transition go more smoothly. They also know many will be unable to heed the advise, and make the transition much more difficult for all involved. [/quote]

They're trying to make their own jobs easier by lying to a patient. It's deeply unethical. There's no way I would lie to my loved one, even if she had dementia.  I would also visit as I felt necessary.  I would start my regular, planned visitation schedule and get into a routine.

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I think we shouldn't assume that the people at the facility are just trying to make their lives easier.  It could be that experience and best practice tells them that this is what works.

They are professionals, right?[/quote]
Pay attention to who is providing most of the direct care and think about how they are paid and their working conditions. There are so many kind and giving aides, but there are also dangerous and cruel aides. It's not different than a day care or preschool. You can't assume that all "professionals" are totally trustworthy. [/quote]

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