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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Depends on whether this is just part of a larger pattern and whether he can discuss it honestly when you tell him it hurts your feelings.

My xDH did/does this. It’s like he specifically amps up the nastiness at the moment I am most vulnerable. He also does it to our child. He appears to have a total inability to support others when they need him. After years of taking my sick kid to the doctor or ER in an uber by myself and being the only parent caring for our child when sick, you can imagine how our relationship deteriorated.

Part of the issue is plain selfishness and lack of empathy. But another part is being affirmatively triggered into hostility when he saw us sick. [b]If I had to guess, I would say it was part of his overall inability to deal with any sort of demand or conflict - he saw a sick family member as making a demand on him and it made him angry.[/b] [/quote]

My boyfriend is this way too.  You phrased it perfectly.  Why the hell are some people so screwed up?  Their lives are so much harder as a result, so it's stupid as a coping mechanism.[/quote]

Why is he still your boyfriend?!?! You could be free![/quote]

Because his companionship is still better than no companionship, and it's slim pickins out there![/quote]

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