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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I was trying to advocate for my kid. She spent the afternoon alone crying while three friends were off having fun; how is that in any way fair? I am on the fence with how to respond to this girl's mother. She just responded with a "heart" emoji on my text and said, "I'm sorry she felt left out. Three kids is my max for playdate supervision. Hope we can see you soon." Not even an invite or any kind of ownership of the behavior.
Maybe I am being insecure or irrational but seeing your kid in tears, left out, visibly, hurts.[/quote]

You are very lucky that that mom was so understanding and reacted in such a kind way to your aggressive and selfish text. You are sounding like a big paranoid problem tbh with this crap about thinking that other mom should have "ownership of the behavior." What behavior? Hosting a play date that didn't include your daughter? FFS. Get a grip.

You need to help your child manage their emotions; she should not have been overreacting like this but give what you have been saying here, we might be seeing why. She  is wildly upset because thinks she was purposely left out and that it is personal ... because she is getting that from you. [/quote]

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