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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it reasonable to expect in marriages lasting nearly 50 year, that each partner will be able to fill all of the needs of the other partner? I simply think dont think it is realistic expectation to require one person, your spouse, to meet  all of the emotional, physical, spiritual, family, and intellectual intimacy we need for the rest of our lives. In our longtime sexless marriage, it [b]has been "open" more because I as the female need it, more so that him than.[/b] I'm trying to stick it out and not have our poor marriage lead to a torn home for my children though. I don't now if the fighting and being married is better, or it would just be better have a calm home --and two separate ones. [/quote]

Wat does that even mean? Explain to me like I'm 5. I'm a 50 years old man and sex is still important to me. What the hell does that mean "as the female need it"? Are you saying men don't need it. Let me tell you this forum is becoming stranger and stranger [/quote]

How should men express that it’s important to us, without be annoying or creating an additional obstacle. [/quote]

As a woman who was in a nearly sexless marriage, it’s virtually impossible to request more sex without being “annoying.”  The partner routinely denying sex holds all the cards and has already decided that you and your needs are “annoying.”[/quote]

Yeah, the "just communicate" camp really minimizes the costs of communicating on this issue. The very act of communicating about sex can reduce or degrade the limited sex you're having. [/quote]

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