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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t listen to these people, OP. You’re doing great. I didn’t shower very much for the first month postpartum either. Once or twice a week and, like you mentioned, bidet. I didn’t get sweaty at all because it was the middle of winter. I had wipes for my boobs and underboobs if milk leaked. I did change my underwear and bra 4x a day, but wasn’t really wearing “real” clothes that I could go out in.

It was completely a season of life, and my husband was home every day and had that first two months off too. I started by wearing easy and loose dresses, then moved onto athleisure.

Take it easy, as long as you feel clean, that should be good enough. Ignore your husband or tell him he’s being a complete ass. His negativity sure doesn’t help. He can do more if he wants you to heal faster. [/quote]

Thank you!

I do change my underwear daily. I just don’t change my sweats out unless it’s really bad.

I wipe my body down.

I think the biggest issue for is showering and laundry. I’m very small and bending to reach clothes is hard enough. Adding in everything else makes it challenging. I hate doing laundry because of it and will only do it if I have absolutely no clothes. My husband tries but often forgets to switch them over and I have to rewash and put in the dryer. [/quote]

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