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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you need a lot of support right now. Back pain from an herniated disc while tending a newborn is a lot. It would be hard to get out of bad daily for most people in this condition. Are your parents nearby? [/quote]

My parents don’t live nearby and can’t help anyway. Older with health issues. My family has kids of their own and work.

We make a little over 200 combined. Way more than the average American, but definitely far less than most on this forum. We can afford childcare but definitely not an expensive doula. The ones I’ve looked into charge like $45-60/hr. We can’t find a nanny willing to work less than 30 hours.

It’s been bad. I’m usually a very clean person. I make it my best to make sure I don’t smell. I take care of what I can. I’m just in so much pain that doing basic tasks takes so much out of me that I don’t want to shower. All I want to do it sit and ice/heat it.

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You do make enough to hire help. It is a matter of priorities and your husband isn't making you one [/quote]

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