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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Something to think about - do you ever have to be out of town or gone overnight and he is responsible for the kids? Are you comfortable leaving him in charge at night -if an emergency arises can he handle it? [/quote] It’s more than this. If OP divorces him, he and his “high functioning alcoholic” self will have 50% custody and will be in charge of the kids without OP there to supervise during that time. He can even get in a car with them and drive. And OP can’t do anything about it because there is no proof he is an alcoholic. And he will fight her for 50% custody. And then OP’s new problem will be how does she make sure her kids are safe when she is no longer there in the home to protect them. It’s a lose-lose situation and OP just had to select the least sucky option of the two available. [/quote]
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