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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP- this is the first time it’s been weeks and he had gotten temporary housing and consulted a lawyer before he left (all without me knowing) Yes, my kids are over 14, and I will find a therapist today. It’s on my to do list along with many other things to protect myself.[/quote] It sounds like he’s split all the way and the divorce is inevitable. I am PP with the similar situation, my XH was the same age as yours. I think their male menopause triggers their mental health issues TBH. It is a terrible year for many of my friends. Lawyer and therapist. Get a therapist with a PsyD or PhD. Not a LICSW or LPW. For custody, your kids are old enough to have their opinion about which parent they want to be with matter. He’s been demonstrably unstable and they can testify to that. I think that you’ll need to ask your lawyer how best to do this. A child advocate can help. [/quote]
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