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[quote=Anonymous]You should write that part of your life from your perspective and send it to him. No other reply necessary. I get that you have an ok relationship with him now but this elephant in the room is not going away. He has completely traumatized teenage you and perhaps derailed your entire life with respect to trusting men. Supporting you as an adult does not just magically wipe all that trauma and hurt away. Actually opening up to him about your perspective might bring about some honest conversation finally, and therefore might actually help your relationship with him. And if it doesn't and it causes you more pain because he backs off or he acts like a jerk, then know that it is ok to not have men like this in your life. You are an adult now and don't need him. You can leave him now like he left you when he apparently didn't need you. [/quote]
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