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Reply to "Divorce settlement specifics to include - s/o AP to stepmom"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have to ask people not only what they wrote in their settlement agreement but what and how they were able to enforce. Those are completely different things. [/quote] If you write it into your settlement agreement, you merge and incorporate it into your final decree. Then when the agreement is not followed, you document sufficiently, then file for contempt in the court. That is a material change in circumstances and the court could impose fines or restrictions. I would include a provision for decision-making with the child. That parental decisions are between the bio parents and include matters around choice of school, being listed as primary contacts over you for emergencies, or disciplining your children. In my case, my XH’s girlfriend was listed on all paperwork as the parent, and I was excluded from pickups. That pissed the court off. [/quote]
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