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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's a pain that never goes away. Dont even hope that it will- just deal with the fact that you will never be able to fully trust this person and make your mind up if you want to be miserable forever by sticking with them. [/quote]

I understand this - I just realized I’ll have to be miserable for awhile why we try to sort it out.  I do feel a bit gaslit by being told if I really loved him I would forgive him.  I’m leaning into this realizing I need to be a bigger person although I did nothing wrong. Major trust issues now but also with time I kinda feel like I just don’t care anymore.  Just worn down and maybe hardened.  Partner thinks this whole event was good for our relationship because so far we have made it through a tough time. I feel like our relationship would be better if he hadn’t cheated but whatever.  I’ve always been with great honest men and never understood why women said men are dogs but now I understand. My current boo is a menace and though all this I have found out he basically has cheated on every woman he’s been with so that was fun to find out about.  I would love to let the ex girlfriend he cheated with that he had been cheating on her for years.  Not sure what to do but my advice is take it day by day and if you’re not getting what best serves you leave.[/quote]

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