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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP, Asian American who also experienced these kinds of comments as a kid, getting pretty steamed at all of the advice here that suggests that the OP needs to either segregate her daughter more (find a heritage school or more diverse school) or assimilate her more (pack "American" lunches). Yes, teach DD to have cultural pride, but overall, OP and her daughter aren't the ones who need to do better. [/quote] Except she does need to do better. She lives in America sweetheart, where school lunch matters to young kids. She either packs the American sandwich, finds an Asian school, or sucks it up and teaches the child to grow a pair while sending some Doritos for the kid to trade at lunch. The latter would be the “American” choice, but since OP seems to want to virtue signal and be woe is me so realistically she’d do better in another school where her kid isn’t the precious odd one out that everyone must cater to. That’s not an American value. [/quote] It must be so "freeing" to be so openly hateful again.[/quote]
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