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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lube up. Story of our marriage. They don't change. [/quote]

OP here. Honestly, this may be the best advice. However, I feel like that pleases him still and not me. I want to be touched. I want to be turned on. Just lubing up turns him on and not me. I still want sex, very often, but I want my thighs stroked too, kissed, etc. [/quote]

Same here. I tried showing him, but he gets impatient if things take time, and I feel as if I am a burden. He gets tired if I ask him to hold on the same pace or, alternatively,  cannot repeat the motion I like.  When I show him a position, his back starts hurting, or his leg goes numb, and he can't continue. It's been like this forever! Once he saw a move  in p**n, I guess, or read somewhere about what women like. [b]He proceeded despite my begging him not to do it, and it hurt like hell. So now, we lube up, I go through the motions, and he feels good. The end.[/b] [/quote]

This is disturbing and if you weren’t married you’d likely call it rape. [/quote]

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