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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should ask the grown kids, not the parent. You’d probably get a very different answer. Most of the adult children of divorce I know (with younger stepsiblings from a 2nd marriage) have some sad memories of childhood, trust issues, feelings of inferiority/not being good enough. And also future relationship issues. But their parents thought everything was great[/quote] I am a millennial where both my mom and my husband's mom re-married. We are deeply resentful they were too busy with their second families to help us. I had post partum depression, 2 Csecs, etc and got zero help. If we had a medically needy kid or a nicu baby or something like that, it would push us right to the edge. It is pretty much adultery and I am really not happy it became normalized to have a second family. IMO if you have an unhappy marriage, go ahead and leave it, but reserve your resources for the first batch of kids you already have. [/quote]
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