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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My kids are all well into adulthood now. My two sons from my first marriage have said to me, of their own initiative, "We completely understand why you and Dad divorced, and you are both much happier now. We just don't understand why you got married in the first place." They have always had a close, loving relationship with their sister from my second marriage (with a 9 and 11 year age gap from my sons). They have a very close relationship with their stepdad. [/quote] This is a great example of a parent telling, and maybe believing, that everything is fine. But I don't believe it-- it's just too perfect.[/quote] Yeah, it's bs. Even if that PP doesn't know it. My mother used to brag about our perfectly blended family and how she and my step dad didn't even see the difference between their own kids and their step kids. Just one big happy family, same as an intact one with no divorce. Meanwhile the step dad was abusing me to a level that would shock people on here, my mother knew about it and did nothing, and my mother tried undermining my stepsister every chance she got because she was jealous of her and hated her. I'm sure she babbled on about the "success story" our family was until the day she died, even though when my step father attacked me when I was 25 I told her I'd never set foot in her house again as long as he was there. And I didn't. [/quote]
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