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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t know, but I once told my pre teen how we should be nice and he asked what good my niceness ever brought me. Made me think! I started letting analyzing it and often my niceness is simply fear of others’ wrath. I don’t even want to please them; I just want them to not be mad at me. I realized it was some trauma coping and let go of some of my niceness, and it’s been great. I now ignore the neighbors I don’t like or just don’t care for (I used to say hi and they wouldn’t always say hi back). I am not so nice on the road (not rude but not nice either). Same with random people I see out and about. Saves me a lot of mental effort it turns out. [/quote]
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