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[quote=Anonymous]OP back with an update.

I tried talking with H and telling him I’m overwhelmed and just need someone to take over for a couple days. He walked away, but I thought he got it because this morning he made breakfast, picked what activity to do with the kids, and got them ready. I got to get out of the house to walk the dog for a bit which helped a lot.

I was feeling better and in the car he mentioned he’s going to do all his cleaning this afternoon. Awesome. Then he asks if he gets everything done today, can he leave for the day tomorrow to go do his hobby, which will be a full day from 7am to 4pm (and then of course in the evening is the Super Bowl, which he will want to watch).

I started crying and got really upset that he sees me struggling, and his response is to ask if he can go take a day off. Like WTF.

He thinks I’m overreacting and just keeps saying “I just wanted to ask! It’s okay if you say no! What’s wrong with asking?!” and I feel he should be able to read the room enough to know when I’ve been crying nonstop for two days because I’m overwhelmed it’s probably not the best time to ask to leave for a full day. [/quote]

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