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Reply to "husband and I handle disagreements differently. Need serious advice"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think men have learned that any confrontation or argument can and will be used against them hence its better to pause and mute. [/quote] OP here. That is fine. I guess my best bet is allow him to lead this but he has lead everything in my life. I got pregnant, because he did not want another, he advised an abortion. I did it. I got a great job offer but he did not want me to take it because I would be around a male dominant environment, so I did not take it. This is just a few examples where he leads and I have no say. Our children's education, same thing.... this argument and all the others, he leads and decides when we can and can not talk about it. Yes I need therapy but I also need a husband.[/quote] Well, you two seem to have lot of resentment towards each other and need to accept your dynamic and slowly improve it, seek marital counseling for neutral professional perspective or trial separation to reset it. [/quote]
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