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Silent stewing for days over a disagreement is a form of emotional abuse.

It's ok to ask to put the disagreement aside while he thinks about things. Often giving time and space to disagreements can help them lose fire. But while it's put aside, he needs to be communicating. This is what adults do when they are upset.

So if you disagree on Monday, he needs to be able to talk about what's for dinner and the schedule for the week etc, on Monday night without acting like a preschooler."

+100

He absolutely should not reject OP's request to play games with the rest of their family. That is TERRIBLE parenting and shitty husbanding. [/quote]
? OP said he talks with the kids in front of her.  He's not playing games with the rest of the family. He's probably trying to keep calm in front of the kids which means not engaging with someone (OP) who will make him disagreeable.

I think they both have issues, and I can say that as someone who is more like the DH.

The DH needs to separate the argument from interaction with OP when it comes to daily life; the OP is too needy, and needs to find assurance within herself.[/quote]

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