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[quote=Anonymous]Your parents and most likely you have enabled your sister to live like this. You write she was "shell-shocked" when she had to move into your parents place as if she were a victim. Knowing she is a hoarder your parents shouldn't have let her move in. And if they felt like they had to then they needed to have set really rigid conditions such as the room stays clean or no internet, cable, TV, etc. So you are spending all this time worrying, your parents are worrying, and you know who isn't worrying? Your sister. She is having a feast, goofing around online and binge watching shows. Co-worker had this issue and when parents died so they bought a house in a a really cheap cost of living area (I think it was Charlestown, WV). Gave sibling a stipend of 1,000 a month (house and cash out of parents estate). Sibling plays video games and eats fast food but is out of sight and out of mind. [/quote]
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