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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is your vision of married life together?  Will you have kids?  Who will care for them? Who will be there when they are sick? Who will clean the house? Who will cook the daily meals?  If it is too hard to do all the things, how will you adjust.  Whose job will take precedence?

You don't have to answer any of these questions for DCUM.  But you should talk about it with your BF.[/quote]

My ideal vision is to have 2-4 kids ( most likely just 2) and work PT. Be present in raising my kids but hopefully afford to outsource cleaning and other household responsibilities except for cooking.

I want a husband who works hard but also has the time to be present in his children’s lives. [/quote]

Does HE want to be present in his children's lives? Kids go to sleep pretty early, so he can't waltz in at 10 pm and except to have quality time with them then. Does he work weekends? Does he travel a lot?

And what about outsourcing childcare? You sound woefully uninformed about what raising children is actually like. [/quote]

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