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[quote=Anonymous]I don't need to know all the details. The general story sure but I am interested in who they are now in life, not what they did with their college girlfriend 30 years ago. General patterns are of interest - for example if they have never lived alone, never been single - that would be something I would want to explore. But specifics, not interested People change over time, they also all bring their own perspective to their lives and that perspective evolves with age and experience and wisdom. Also, I want to know how compatable they will be with me. I am more focused on the present. I am also a fairly private person and would not be overly comfortable with a new partner needing a play by play of every partner and sexual encounter in my life. I just don't think it matters. I care about who they are now, their values, their priorities, what they see as a healthy relationship, their view of their strengths and weaknesses, how they treat others etc. [/quote]
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