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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is obviously an individual choice that is based on a myriad of different factors.  In our case having three has been great.  [b]I’m my experience the best thing you can do for your child is to give them siblings.[/b] Also parenting is like everything else you get better with experience.  We are much better parents for a third kid than we were for our first.  Good luck.  [/quote]

This is an INSANE thing to say. I'm sure many people are happy to have siblings. But many are neutral to negative on it, and there are tons of other things I think are more important to provide a child with than a sibling. Like love and support and a safe home and an education and a sense of belonging. A sibling could be part of that (or, in another family, could actively get in the way of providing those things) but siblings are NOT the most essential thing you can give a child. That's bananas.[/quote]

You’re quite a literalist aren’t you?  If someone says to you “ see you later alligator”  do you correct them and let them know that you are indeed not an alligator?

If by “best thing” you meant the most “essential thing” - I would imagine that the answer would be oxygen. Oxygen is the most essential thing for a child.

But taking the previous poster’s statement in the spirit in which it was made - I think they have a point,  siblings are very helpful to having a happy and well adjusted life. [/quote]

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