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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You'll never regret your child, but most often women regret the men. Married or unmarried.

OP I wouldn't tell your bf. Cut off all ties and go it alone. Once you involve him the child will be a yo yo and you won't have a say on who will be around your child at dad's place. Most divorced women are miserable with the poor child exchanges and toxic people around their child they can't control. [/quote]

Once he knows, she can’t cut him out if he asserts rights. Also, if she does not name but ever files for state benefits, EBT, medical for SN child, etc, they will pursue paternity. Isn’t that how the dad who murdered his kid making him run on treadmill got visitation? No good answers, OP. If you move far away he may lose interest.[/quote]

Presumably it will be easier for her to keep sole custody if his name is not on the birth certificate than if they get married and are guaranteed to go through the legal separation/divorce process, which will necessitate bringing up custody issues. If OP simply moves out now and disappears she could presumably make it pretty hard to track herself down, without the same legal issues as if he was a recognized parent[/quote]

No, he can still assert rights and he knows she is pregnant. Moving if he pursues legal case could be held against her. Unmarried doesn’t matter. Your scenario only has a chance if he did not know. [/quote]

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