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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm your husband. My love language is cuddles. Frankly it's the only thing that keeps me going. I would spiral into severe anxiety if I couldn't have physical contact and affection, particularly at night.

I would tread carefully here, OP. He might get his needs fulfilled elsewhere. I would strongly consider this if my husband wasn't willing and able to cuddle me all night long.
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You understand this is HIGHLY problematic and are seeking professional help right? Using some one as a human security blanket and immediately planning to cheat if their needs interfered with your “need” to be soothed all night long is not grown up behavior.[/quote]

Yes, the "I would spiral into severe anxiety" is giving predatory/covert abuser vibes. Let me guess, whenever that "anxiety" gets "spiraled" he "cant control his moods" and starts getting grumpy/moody/possibly extremely argumentative or even violent? Men like this are so predatory and put so much pressure on their wives and drain the life out of her, blaming her for every little bad mood or disappointment. It's really sad they give their wife the task of regulating their mood rather than just getting therapy. [/quote]

Pretty sure that PP is a woman. [/quote]

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