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[quote=Anonymous]These responses are very DCUM. Not very real world. A lot of people don’t set the world on fire professionally. You can still be a good person and good parent.

OP since you’re asking here I think you have concerns. And that’s fine! But no one here can answer as to if he’ll be a good parent, you have the best info on him.

My BFF has a toddler with a man like this. All I can say is PEOPLE DO NOT CHANGE!  Her husband had a decent but not great job when they met. He was a lot of fun but a little lazy. My friend is the up at 5:00, hit the gym, good job, always busy type. There is no way that she would have stayed with him if she wasn’t in her late 30’s when they got serious. But she really wanted a baby. He just goes along with what she wants. Does what she tells him to.  I don’t have kids (by choice) and I wouldn’t want someone like him but it is working ok. She is a little bit of a control freak so in a way it works. But he doesn’t take the initiative for anything. On the other hand, he is much more mellow than she is, and their baby probably benefits from his patience and general good mood. But she is always going to the more responsible of the two. [/quote]

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