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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you have a big problem here. You think that failure to speak up = consent to do something. It isn’t. Often it is conflict avoidance. Your new DH didn’t want to rock the boat until you forced his hand with the plane tickets. He thought you would overreact and voila, you did. You need to stop bulldozing your way around this marriage and actually talk about what you each want/like/prefer. I can’t wrap my head around the fact you just assumed he would want to go on a big trip with your daughter and extended family!!! No matter how nice a destination that would be a sacrifice. Nothing relaxing or vacation-y about it![/quote]
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